Post by aeroguy39 on Dec 2, 2012 8:34:20 GMT -5
So - As you MAY know or have guessed MOST of my friends are in fact women... I JUST get along BETTER with women.... I am relatively sensitive and emotional for a straight guy.... I just have a LOT more to chat with when I talk with women... I LIKE listening to them... and I like them ocassionally asking my thoughts...
ANYWAY... a really close 40 something young woman friend of mine at the gym.... is on the treadmill yesterday as I was leaving aerobics class.. and just so no one let's their imagination run away wth them... she always warmly greets me and gives me hugs and a cheek kiss whether I am with my wife or not. So nothing "funny" going on there.
So yesterday I see her when I am leaving - and she is BEAMING - ear to ear grinning.... I know she has had "guy" issues lately (she is divorced and a single Mom)... so I "Commented"... yada yada... and eventually smiled at her while I was listening to her and OUT LOUD said as it "hit me"... you had sex last night... was he good?... ;D Yea - I just blurt it out ....
Fortunately she is pretty darned comfortable with me... and "spilled the beans" as she continued to beam with that GRIN... and kept looking around and shoosing me... but continuing to whisper her overflowing excitement and feelings.... so OBVIOUSLY while she did not want the general public around us to hear it.. she DEFINITELY wanted ME to hear it!!!
I am mostly just sharing this story with you girls (mostly)... to get your thoughts on my pretty typical interaction with my female friends... I ENJOY being their "guy" / "girl friend"... and mostly they are REALLY comfortable with me and know one is FORCING these kinds of disclosures and discussions... BUT I also understand that I am treading in fairly unchartered territory (at least for most guys).... and SOMETIMES an interaction like what I described (RARE OCASSION) does not actually go as well as what I have presented here (misjudgement on my part? Mood? Situation?) Whatever - it DOES happen....
Thanks for listening...
I will also "say out loud" - I would like you ladies (and gentlemen if so inclined) to SHARE your own thoughts / experiences on this topic.
Thanks and have a LOVELY day!!!!
ANYWAY... a really close 40 something young woman friend of mine at the gym.... is on the treadmill yesterday as I was leaving aerobics class.. and just so no one let's their imagination run away wth them... she always warmly greets me and gives me hugs and a cheek kiss whether I am with my wife or not. So nothing "funny" going on there.
So yesterday I see her when I am leaving - and she is BEAMING - ear to ear grinning.... I know she has had "guy" issues lately (she is divorced and a single Mom)... so I "Commented"... yada yada... and eventually smiled at her while I was listening to her and OUT LOUD said as it "hit me"... you had sex last night... was he good?... ;D Yea - I just blurt it out ....
Fortunately she is pretty darned comfortable with me... and "spilled the beans" as she continued to beam with that GRIN... and kept looking around and shoosing me... but continuing to whisper her overflowing excitement and feelings.... so OBVIOUSLY while she did not want the general public around us to hear it.. she DEFINITELY wanted ME to hear it!!!
I am mostly just sharing this story with you girls (mostly)... to get your thoughts on my pretty typical interaction with my female friends... I ENJOY being their "guy" / "girl friend"... and mostly they are REALLY comfortable with me and know one is FORCING these kinds of disclosures and discussions... BUT I also understand that I am treading in fairly unchartered territory (at least for most guys).... and SOMETIMES an interaction like what I described (RARE OCASSION) does not actually go as well as what I have presented here (misjudgement on my part? Mood? Situation?) Whatever - it DOES happen....
Thanks for listening...
I will also "say out loud" - I would like you ladies (and gentlemen if so inclined) to SHARE your own thoughts / experiences on this topic.
Thanks and have a LOVELY day!!!!